December 28: The Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph

Today's Homily

Dear Brothers and Sisters, today, as we gather here to celebrate the Feast of the Holy Family, we reflect on the sacredness of family life as modeled by Jesus, Mary, and Joseph. The readings invite us to meditate on the virtues that hold a family together: love, respect, forgiveness, and faithfulness to God’s will. In the Holy Family, we see an example of how God intends families to be places of mutual support, growth, and holiness.                                                         

The first reading from Sirach emphasizes the importance of honoring one’s parents. It speaks to the blessings that flow from respecting and caring for parents, especially in their old age. Sirach reminds us that such acts of kindness and reverence are not merely social obligations but spiritual ones—”kindness to a father will not be forgotten”.                                                                                         In honoring our parents, we learn humility and gratitude, virtues that nurture family bonds. This teaching challenges us in a culture that sometimes overlooks the elderly or prioritizes individualism over familial responsibilities. Just as Jesus respected Mary and Joseph, we too are called to treat our family members with dignity, even when it requires sacrifice.                                                                               

The second reading from Colossians provides a blueprint for family life centered on Christian virtues. St. Paul calls us to “put on heartfelt compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience”. These virtues, when practiced within the family, foster unity and peace. Paul underscores the importance of forgiveness, urging us to bear with one another as the Lord has forgiven us.                     

Forgiveness is essential in family life because no family is perfect. Disagreements and misunderstandings are inevitable, but love, “the bond of perfection,” empowers us to overcome them. St. Paul also reminds us to let “the peace of Christ control your hearts”.           

A Christ-centered family is one where gratitude abounds, and every word and deed reflects the love of God.

The Gospel from Luke gives us a glimpse into the life of the Holy Family, highlighting their faith, trust, and mutual respect. The story of the young Jesus staying behind in the Temple reveals both the humanity and the divinity at play within this family. Mary and Joseph, filled with anxiety, search for their son, only to find him in his Father’s house.                                                                               

Jesus’ response—“Did you not know that I must be in my Father’s house?”—reminds us that every family is part of God’s greater plan. While Mary and Joseph did not fully understand at the time, they trusted in God’s providence. Their humility and openness to God’s will are lessons for us. Families thrive when they place their trust in God, even in moments of uncertainty.                                      

The Holy Family teaches us that holiness is achieved not in extraordinary moments but in the ordinary rhythms of daily life. Jesus grew up in Nazareth, obedient to Mary and Joseph, advancing “in wisdom and age and favor before God and man”. Likewise, our families are called to create environments where every member can grow in faith and virtue.                                                                       

As we celebrate this feast, let us reflect on how we can bring the virtues of the Holy Family into our own homes. How can we honor and care for our parents, especially those who are elderly? How can we practice forgiveness and love in moments of conflict? How can we trust in God’s plan for our family, even when it is not clear?                    

The Feast of the Holy Family is not just about admiring the example of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph—it is about imitating them. Let us ask for their intercession so that our families may be places where love, respect, and faith reign. May our homes reflect the peace of Christ, and may we always strive to live as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved.